My five-year-old daughter is brilliant. It is, therefore, no surprise to me that she regularly uses logic to come to conclusions. She is always trying to figure something out and goes through a very intense method of reasoning to finally find her answers.
What is also not surprising, however, is that her conclusions are often wrong when dealing with issues that only “grownups” would understand. It got my thinking about why this is the case.
For some logic and reason are more important than anything. Someone with sound logic skills can work out any problem and do so without the tainting of emotional interference. The true logician is like the Vulcan race from Star Trek, unflinching in their reasoning.
How then can such people ever fail to understand something? Why does understanding often elude someone steeped in logic? The answer, which I determined through observation, rather than pure reasoning, is that a person of logic also needs wisdom.
Wisdom is nothing something obtained through first principles or through studying. Wisdom comes only through life experience, empathy, emotional trials, and often divine guidance. The child can become very advanced and logic but still does not possess the wisdom that comes naturally with age. Thus, understanding is not guaranteed.
I am reminded of a story about Luqman (peace be upon him), one of the wisest men mentioned in the Qur’an. He wanted to teach his son that he cannot please everyone all of the time, but rather than preaching to his son, he allowed him to experience it.
They were traveling with their donkey one day. Luqman was walking in front of it, and his son was seated on top of it. A group of passersby saw this and talked amongst themselves (but loud enough for Luqman and his son to hear) saying, “Look at this young selfish boy who lets his old father walk while he enjoys the ease of riding.”
Luqman’s son felt bad after hearing them say this and got down from the donkey, insisting that his father ride it instead. His father mounted the donkey, and they continued on their way. Later they came upon some more people, and one of the said, “What a cruel father he is who makes his son walk while he rides in luxury!”
Upon hearing this the two of them both got off of the donkey and walked behind it. They then came upon another group of people and one said, “How foolish! They have a perfectly good donkey, yet they walk behind it! Why do you not ride it?”
Upon hearing this, Luqman’s son decided perhaps it would be best for both of them to ride. So, they continued with both of them mounted on the donkey. They eventually passed some more people, and one of the said, “How cruel this duo are, putting all of that load on a small, innocent donkey!”
Luqman and his son dismounted, and he said to his son, “You have heard and seen what the people said. It must have assured you, by now, that whatever you do or whichever way you move, one is not able to please the people of the world.”
“He grants wisdom to whom He pleases; and he to whom wisdom is granted receives indeed a benefit overflowing; but none will grasp the Message but people of understanding.” (Qur’an 2:269)
